Saturday, August 13, 2011

Nice guys

Sometimes I really hate being nice by nature. It sucks. Nice guys always finish last. I'm sixteen, you think I'd have a girlfriend? Nope. I've been turned down by all but two girls I've asked out. And yeah I know what you guys are thinking, "Matt you're in highschool, don't worry about girls just yet". Well you know what I say to that? I've pretty much been single ever since I've started being attracted to girls, and when I do get a girlfriend, it lasts a month at most. I know I should wait for the right girl, but it's like, everyone else gets to have girlfriends that come and go, what about me? My last girlfriend was a whore, and right after we broke up she sent pictures to my best friend. Don't ask me how I figured out, that's not a good thing, but really? It's stupid because I try extremely hard, and yet none ever feel the same way. Anyone know that feeling? Yeah? Suck doesn't it?
Stay Gold guys.

11 comments:

  1. I plan on dating in college, the earliest. Girls learn to control their hormonally induced bitchiness by then, sometimes.

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  2. I know it won't sound like it helps, but here you go: if yo treat all girls like friends, and act completely aloof around them, most of them will eventually want you. It sounds weird but it works... the less you stress, the more you get. I know it's hard not to care, but just do what you want, be interesting, and the girls will follow.

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  3. Trust me. One day you'll find a girl who actually appreciates your kindness, and I guarantee you she'll be 100x's better than any of the shallow/ditzy girls who go for the typical asshole.

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  4. Being rejected sucks, but necessary. Everyone gets rejected at some point, just keep trying and you will have no problem with it in the future when a girl says "I would love to!". That feeling is fantastic!

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  5. I know that feeling bro, it sucks.

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  6. The "nice guy" term doesn't have the same meaning anymore. I suggest you read my post about PUA and alpha-males. You will understand what you did wrong.

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  7. Dude, belive me when I say It gets worse from here.

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  8. bro, i'm WAAAAAY too much of a nice guy. and i know exactly what your talking about. but what can i do? its just my nature. But shit really does suck sometimes. *also, been turned down SOOO many times, mostly cuz of "friendzone" fuck friend zone. i'd love to read a post about your thoughts on that horrid place

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  9. Sounds like the only thing you want is TO BE wanted.

    That is, assuming you actually are waiting for that "special someone".

    Got to kill your ego, bro. Once you kill your ego, or at least start, you'll start seeing and thinking clearer. Everything will start to make more sense.

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  10. My suggestion, just really stop caring about it. Ignore girls. Infact, if you ignore them or seem not interested. Then they are more interested, because they want to know why you want pay attention to them. Its all psychology. You can be a alpha and still be a nice guy, you just have to pick the right time for everything.

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